{"id":1538,"date":"2024-04-14T06:41:08","date_gmt":"2024-04-14T06:41:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbiz.thongtinluat.com\/?p=1538"},"modified":"2024-04-14T06:41:08","modified_gmt":"2024-04-14T06:41:08","slug":"bethenny-frankel-shares-red-flags-she-ignored-with-ex-jason-hoppy-admits-she-wasnt-into-him-plus-talks-trust-issues-and-ptsd-after-torturous-divorce-nhungc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbiz.thongtinluat.com\/bethenny-frankel-shares-red-flags-she-ignored-with-ex-jason-hoppy-admits-she-wasnt-into-him-plus-talks-trust-issues-and-ptsd-after-torturous-divorce-nhungc\/","title":{"rendered":"Bethenny Frankel Shares Red Flags She Ignored With Ex Jason Hoppy, Admits She Wasn\u2019t \u201cInto\u201d Him, Plus Talks Trust Issues and PTSD After \u201cTorturous\u201d Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Bethenny Frankel\u00a0opened up about ignoring the red flags early on in\u00a0her relationship\u00a0with her ex-husband\u00a0Jason Hoppy\u00a0on a recent episode of her podcast.<\/p>\n

As she also admitted to suffering from \u201cmassive trust issues\u201d and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) following their years-long divorce on another episode, the\u00a0Real Housewives of New York City\u00a0alum, 53, revealed she\u00a0overlooked warning signs and \u201cconvinced\u201d herself to be with Jason while at a \u201clow, vulnerable point\u201d of her life.<\/p>\n

\u201cI wasn\u2019t really that into him,\u201d Bethenny admitted on the April 12 episode of\u00a0Just B Divorced, via\u00a0Page Six. \u201cI convinced myself to be that into him, and when I would hit a low during that general period, it would be like a security blanket and I would like logically say this is something I should do.\u201d<\/p>\n

Bethenny and Jason began dating in\u00a02008 and shortly thereafter, Bethenny took note of some odd behavior from her partner after he stayed with her following an evening out.<\/p>\n

\u201cThen he asked the driver to take him back downtown to get his car,\u201d she said, stating his actions were either \u201cendearing that he wanted to hang out with me\u201d or a lie and \u201cthat he wanted to hang out with me.\u201d<\/p>\n

Bethenny was also taken aback at how soon Jason expressed interest in having a child, revealing that he was concerned about her age.<\/p>\n

\u201cI did not think of this as a red flag. I don\u2019t know why I didn\u2019t,\u201d she noted. \u201cI think I was 36 or maybe 37, like your biological clock is ticking, but I wasn\u2019t 42. And I was also about to launch a liquor brand. But I led with like my heart and not my logic and my mind and not my gut and my stomach. And I\u2019m not blaming anyone else \u2014 my body, my own choice.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ultimately, despite her concerns,\u00a0Bethenny married Jason\u00a0in March 2010 and gave birth to their\u00a0now-13-year-old daughter,\u00a0Bryn Casey Hoppy, two months later.<\/p>\n

Then, less than three years later, as Jason\u2019s charm turned \u201ctoxic, they separated. But their divorce wasn\u2019t finalized until 2021.<\/p>\n

As for the final \u201cfire engine red flag,\u201d\u00a0 Bethenny said that came amid a conversation about\u00a0Nick Lachey<\/strong>\u00a0and\u00a0Jessica Simpson<\/strong>\u2019s 2006 divorce, during which Jason said, \u201c[Nick] should take whatever he can get from her.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBut nevertheless, I ended up getting engaged and I ended up doing a prenup really fast that my lawyer said I should not allow you to sign. But I said, I\u2019m marrying a regular guy, a small town guy from a small you know town family, a regular guy. He does not want my money, famous last words,\u201d Bethenny said. \u201cI was pregnant. I was not happy in my relationship. I kept going because I was doing a television show and I was very stupid.\u201d<\/p>\n

As\u00a0RHONY\u00a0fans well know, Bethenny had much more than Jason when they wed and because of that,\u00a0their divorce, and the finances involved, was long and drawn out.<\/p>\n

Due to what she went through with Jason, she doesn\u2019t want to repeat that financial dynamic \u201cbecause it becomes a problem.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve been burned. I have massive trust issues, and I have post-traumatic stress disorder. It was literally the most traumatizing thing I will hopefully ever go through in my life,\u201d she said on the April 11 episode of\u00a0Just B, via\u00a0Page Six. \u201cI thought I would never survive it. I did not see a way out. It was suffocating. I thought I was gonna be miserable for the rest of my life.\u201d<\/p>\n

According to Bethenny,\u00a0her and Jason\u2019s messy split\u00a0was \u201cmore tortuous\u201d than the death of a loved one and made her feel like a \u201cpowerless, tortured\u201d individual.<\/p>\n

\u201cI have had every single f*cing thing except for physical abuse done to me, and I am an expert on this topic,\u201d she claimed, noting that she\u2019s\u00a0allegedly been faced with \u201cfraud,\u201d \u201cforgery,\u201d \u201cmultiple trials on custody,\u201d \u201cbeing followed,\u201d and \u201callegedly being hacked.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI have been through a f*cking war \u2013\u2013 a war. I have questioned myself as a human, as a parent, because I was told so many times otherwise how terrible I was and disgusting and old and irrelevant and so abused, because I had no power to get out of it,\u201d she continued. \u201cHow a person who is so smart and so successful could make such poor judgment calls and decisions or just not know or just have a bad hand, but it\u2019s been a journey, so I\u2019m ready to discuss it.\u201d<\/p>\n

Over 10 years after their split, and now that Bryn \u201cknows all about\u201d the divorce, Bethenny said she\u2019s finally ready to talk about \u201csomething that has been impossible to talk about\u201d for years and will be doing so on her podcasts.<\/p>\n

Also, on Thursday\u2019s episode of Just B, Bethenny seemingly signaled her years-long engagement to\u00a0Paul Bernon.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s why I have not gotten married again, or I\u2019m not sure if I would ever get married again,\u201d she shared.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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