{"id":1676,"date":"2024-04-15T01:27:28","date_gmt":"2024-04-15T01:27:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbiz.thongtinluat.com\/?p=1676"},"modified":"2024-04-15T01:27:28","modified_gmt":"2024-04-15T01:27:28","slug":"bethenny-frankel-ignored-red-flags-before-marrying-ex-jason-hoppy-i-convinced-myself-to-be-into-him-nhungc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sbiz.thongtinluat.com\/bethenny-frankel-ignored-red-flags-before-marrying-ex-jason-hoppy-i-convinced-myself-to-be-into-him-nhungc\/","title":{"rendered":"Bethenny Frankel ignored \u2018red flags\u2019 before marrying ex Jason Hoppy: I \u2018convinced myself\u2019 to be into him"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bethenny Frankel is reflecting on her marriage with her ex-husband, Jason Hoppy, through a wiser lens.<\/p>\n

On\u00a0Friday\u2019s episode of her \u201cJust B Divorced\u201d podcast, the \u201cReal Housewives of New York\u201d alum, 53, admitted that she overlooked some serious warning signs in her relationship because she \u201cconvinced\u201d herself \u201cto be that into him.\u201d<\/p>\n

The first red flag she recognized she overlooked was when he stayed with her after a night out and told her he\u2019d left his vehicle elsewhere so he could ride with her.<\/p>\n

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Bethenny Frankel admitted that she ignored the \u201cred flags\u201d in her relationship with her now ex-husband, Jason Hoppy.\u00a0Getty Images<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n
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The \u201cReal Housewives of New York\u201d alum, 53, opened up about her marriage and divorce from her ex on Friday\u2019s episode of her \u201cJust B Divorced\u201d podcast.\u00a0WireImage<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n
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Frankel and Hoppy met in 2008 and were legally married until Jan. 20, 2021.\u00a0G. Gershoff<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

\u201cThen he asked the driver to take him back downtown to get his car,\u201d she said noting that the move could either be viewed as \u201cendearing that he wanted to hang out with me\u201d or a lie and \u201cthat he wanted to hang out with me.\u201d<\/p>\n

Another red flag she ignored was Hoppy sharing his desire to have a child with her early in their relationship out of concern for her age.<\/p>\n

\u201cNow I did not think of this as a red flag. I don\u2019t know why I didn\u2019t. I think other people would think of it,\u201d Frankel \u2014 who shares shares 13-year-old daughter, Bryn, with her ex \u2014 said.<\/p>\n

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One of the red flags she noted was Hoppy\u2019s urgency to have children which he claimed was out of concern for Frankel\u2019s age.\u00a0bethennyfrankel\/Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n
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\u201cI think I was 36 or maybe 37, like your biological clock is ticking, but I wasn\u2019t 42,\u201d she shared on the episode.\u00a0bethennyfrankel\/Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

\u201cI think I was 36 or maybe 37, like your biological clock is ticking, but I wasn\u2019t 42. And I was also about to launch a liquor brand. But I led with like my heart and not my logic and my mind and not my gut and my stomach,\u201d she added. \u201cAnd I\u2019m not blaming anyone else \u2014 my body, my own choice.\u201d<\/p>\n

She then claimed that Hoppy\u2019s charm turned into a \u201ctoxic trait.\u201d<\/p>\n

The final \u201cfire engine red flag\u201d was when they discussed Nick Lachey\u2019s 2006 divorce from Jessica Simpson. She claimed that Hoppy told her, \u201che [Lachey] should he should take whatever he can get from her.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBut nevertheless, I ended up getting engaged and I ended up doing a prenup really fast that my lawyer said I should not allow you to sign. But I said, I\u2019m marrying a regular guy, a small town guy from a small you know town family, a regular guy. He does not want my money, famous last words,\u201d the Skinnygirl Margarita founder said.<\/p>\n

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Money was also an issue of contention for her because \u201cI had more [money] than this person.\u201d\u00a0bethennyfrankel\/Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n
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Ultimately, she said she went through with a prenup agreement at the behest of her lawyer.\u00a0bethennyfrankel\/Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n
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\u201cWhat you should do is run like a thief in the night if you\u2019re not certain,\u201d she said of her last relationship.\u00a0Instagram\/@bethennyfrankel<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

However, money was a big topic throughout their relationship because she \u201chad more [money] than this person\u201d \u2014 which is a power dynamic she said she doesn\u2019t want to repeat \u201cbecause it becomes a problem.\u201d<\/p>\n

Though she recognized the warning signs, she admitted to talking herself into the relationship.<\/p>\n

\u201cI wasn\u2019t really that into him,\u201d she said, noting that at the time of their relationship, she\u2019d hit a \u201clow, vulnerable point.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI convinced myself to be that into him, and when I would hit a low during that general period, it would be like a security blanket and I would like logically say this is something I should do,\u201d she continued.<\/p>\n

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Frankel and Hoppy finalized their divorce after eight years of separation in March 2021.\u00a0bethennyfrankel\/Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n
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She\u2019s now dating Paul Bernon, whom she\u2019s been engaged to off and on since 2018.\u00a0bethennyfrankel\/Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

Frankel then revealed that the lesson she\u2019s learned from the experience is \u201cwhat you should do is run like a thief in the night if you\u2019re not certain.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI was pregnant. I was not happy in my relationship. I kept going because I was doing a television show and I was very stupid,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

The couple went on to get married in 2010 before splitting three years later. However, it wasn\u2019t until March 2021 that the couple\u00a0finalized their divorce.<\/p>\n

Frankel is currently engaged to Paul Bernon, whom she\u2019s been\u00a0engaged to on and off since 2018.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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