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<\/p>\nTom Sandoval\u00a0is admitting he has regrets over his actions amid\u00a0Scandoval.<\/p>\n
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On the April 30 episode of\u00a0Vanderpump Rules,<\/em>\u00a0Scheana Shay\u00a0asked the\u00a0Schwartz & Sandy’s\u00a0co-owner, 41, about his ex\u00a0Ariana Madix\u00a0moving on with\u00a0Daniel Wai.<\/p>\n \u201cI found out, I was like, well, that’s really good because I was always worried about her mentally with this whole situation,\u201d he explained. \u201cI just feel she’s there. She has somebody with her and like that she would just be better and be able to handle it better.\u201d<\/p>\n Scheana, 38, then questioned if Sandoval could apologize for \u201cweaponizing\u201d Ariana\u2019s mental health struggles by discussing them publicly in the aftermath of Scandoval. (As fans may recall, Sandoval said Ariana had \u201cthreatened to f—ing kill herself\u201d when he tried to break up with her.)<\/p>\n In a confessional, Scheana admitted that she wanted Sandoval to see the error of his ways. \u201cI’m trying to get Sandoval to understand that exposing private details about her mental health makes things so much worse,” she said. “If he could genuinely apologize, maybe there’s some hope in this group of moving forward one day.\u201d<\/p>\n She continued to press Sandoval about making amends for his actions, saying, \u201cI\u2019m just asking if you could say, ‘You know what, maybe I shouldn’t have said that to deflect from my actions and make an excuse for it.’ When at the end of the day, she just wanted to make it work.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cShe didn’t freeze her eggs just for herself,\u201d she added of Ariana, 38. \u201cShe didn’t go to couples therapy just for herself. She didn’t buy a house just for herself. She did all of these things to build a life with you. And that’s it.\u201d<\/p>\n Sandoval then admitted that he should have handled the situation differently.<\/p>\n \u201cMe explaining where I was emotionally and mentally has come across as blaming Ariana,\u201d he told Scheana. \u201cI’m not. I screwed up and no matter how our relationship went south in ways, she didn’t deserve that.\u201d<\/p>\n Elsewhere in the episode, Ariana and Scheana\u2019s husband \u200b\u200bBrock Davies\u00a0had a conversation about forgiveness amid the fallout of the scandal.<\/p>\n \u201cForgiveness isn’t accepting what he’d done,\u201d he told Ariana. \u201cForgiveness is like, giving yourself the ability to focus on the good things that you haven’t gotten on around you.\u201d<\/p>\n She countered, \u201cIn order to move on happily with your life and focus on the good, you 100% do not have to forgive anyone who’s traumatized you.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cThere’s power to me in hurt and anger and in female emotion and being able to have that and not being put in this position of you have to take the high road or be stoic or be ‘strong’ at every moment in order to have power,\u201d she added. \u201cI think there’s power and all those emotions and I stand by that.\u201d<\/p>\n She further explained in a confessional, \u201cThe notion that you have to forgive or to move on in your life, that’s outdated therapy, gray rocking and going no contact is literally the only way to avoid the s—, the manipulation, all of it. It’s me, I’m a gray rock.\u201d<\/p>\n Vanderpump Rules<\/em>\u00a0airs Tuesdays at 8 p.m. ET\/PT on Bravo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Tom Sandoval\u00a0is admitting he has regrets over his actions amid\u00a0Scandoval. 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